“We must become the change we wish to see in the world” said Mahatma Gandhi
At school I recall completing an essay and held many subsequent discussions on “Being President For A Day” during my English Literacy class. We were commissioned to write how we would use or “abuse” our given powers as President.
Of course the class nationalist would nationalize the economy. The class philanthropist would do everything he could “for the needy”. The class capitalists would do everything they could to create wealth. The class fools would foolishly create a multitude of public holidays and longer paid vacations. Yet we all wanted to change something…reduce crime, increase literacy, improve service delivery etc.
As I reflect on that exercise I realize that YOU are in fact president of your own self. I am CEO, State president or Managing Director of “THE VINESH MAHARAJ FAMILY TRUST”, just as you are of your own “personal” or “family trust”. Is your trust growing in health and wealth or is it on the decline into debt and disease? Everything you think, say and do has consequent effects on you and your family. Be it in your Economy, Health, Education, Home etc. Why day dream about being president or CEO when actually you already are?
Here is the challenge most people fail at. They fail at having a game-plan. They get into life, trying to build the ship while sailing. Dangerous living is it not? The CEO, President or Managing Director has the responsibility for result achievement. Do you want to be famed for your success or become infamous for your lack thereof?
Today I wish to share with you these truths about your results:
- What you see, is what YOU have created – You cannot blame the government, the economy, or your lack of education for your current situation. You must start by taking 100% responsibility for your current status. In good or bad, accept your personal participation. By active or tacit agreement, through decisions and actions here you are. Like it or lump it, the facts are the facts.
- Status Quo Dissonance? – Are you really happy with the current state of affairs? Or have you come to settle for things as they are because that’s how the chips have fallen? If you could change your current status what would you change? Think about the toxic people you may want to reconsider. Are you happy with the state of your health, wealth, relationships etc? Having a healthy dissonance about your current status can be the impetus or fuel that feeds the furnace of success.
- Change – Daily we change our clothes, sometimes our cars and even our homes but how often do we change our minds? “To change the world, you must first change your mind.” said Jimi Hendrix long before popular psychology. To change our results, we must start to change ourselves. Challenge your own perceptions and realities and if you cant, then have others challenge them for you.
- Design a Life – Go back to the drawing board – We spend months and years planning a wedding or vacation but spend not even an hour in drawing up a “LIFE PLAN”. Craft your path and the road will reveal itself to you. Start with the end in mind and fill in the pieces like a jig saw puzzle.
- Challenge yourself – When things get tough, its time for you to get tougher. Who said it will be smooth sailing? The reason the bottom is full is because success comes at a price most are unwilling or unable to pay. Do you have the “currency” to pay for your success?
- Work, work and more work – Ask any successful person about the “secret to success”. They are always working hard at their plans. It sometimes takes the 100th strike at the rock to break it. Don’t think for a moment that the preceding 99 were futile. They were instrumental in wearing down the rock, breaking down its resistance. So after planning, strike away for you might strike gold.
- Measure and Manage – Keep score, watch your daily, weekly, monthly and annual dashboards. Track your progress, stop to refuel and most of all, enjoy the journey. The sweetness of success is not only in the arrival. Its in the entire journey. Building quality relationships, overcoming obstacles, winning small wins etc. are all reminiscent of the final victory.
Like Mahatma Gandhi said “We must become the change we wish to see in the world” – its now up to you. Will you embrace that change or will you surrender to the status quo, more of the same…
For more on creating lasting change in your personal and professional or in your business life feel free to contact me.
I’m your coach and partner in success…
Vinesh Maharaj
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